This lead him to integrate his martial arts training and Eastern philosophy into a system of explanations and metaphors of human interaction and motivational explanations.
Background Xuma's core idea is the Alpha Male, who displays masculine and leadership behavior.
According to Xuma he started out studying the social dynamics and interaction between men and women.
If you are truly confident, you will show her, not tell her.) Self-confidence is demonstrated by your overall poise: * You act in ways that are consistent with a self-confident man * You go after what you want * You aren't afraid to speak your mind * You're calm, at ease * You're not impulsive * You act, not react * You're happy, and other people's moods never affect that * You are independent.
Not needy or clingy * You have goals and activities in life outside of women I think the ultimate example of a self-confident man is James Bond.
It is a demonstrated characteristic, as we discussed before, and it is primarily action-based, meaning that you can talk all you want, but the bottom line is that you have to do something to be thought of as self-confident. She needs to see you behaving self-confident to believe that you are.
(This is why bragging is one of the most attraction-killing actions you can take for displaying self-confidence.